The Secret to Expectation Management
An old saying advises that an expectation is a resentment waiting to happen. Resentments corrode the vessel that contains them. That’s why holding on to resentments creates so much collateral damage including heartburn and anger. Let go and rethink it.
A Future that Hasn’t Happened
What is an expectation exactly? It is a hope, an optimistic state of mind that some future event will be what we want. Hope, by the way, is not a strategy, or a leadership competence.
Expectations might get us into trouble when the stakes are significant. If dinner is important because I’m cooking for a special occasion, I take steps to insure a positive result. I start with a recipe from a chef I trust [Marcella Hazan]. I purchase fresh, quality ingredients, I allow the necessary time. And I think it through and so on.
Clear requests are the secret to expectation management. When a manager makes a clear request, including preferences about important details describing, length, depth, and key metrics, [perhaps sample] for example, that’s a different story. When that happens, and when the report negotiates and confirms the request, including the what, when and how details, there is cause for hope.